No need for words like trolling as far as I can see. However, I never met nor even corresponded with Emily Sander. I think a compromise is to leave the news source reference to there being a memorial and tribute as it is, but not linking to the tribute itself--at least until the conflict is resolved. But not a "porn queen" either. That makes it more "news" than "encyclopedic" to me. This is why her disappearance and death and associated circumstances have been reported worldwide I read about it here in Sydney. This is essentially a description of a crime; not suitable for an encyclopedia article--
Audrina. Age: 23.
They may not be hardcore porn, but they are at least "soft porn".
Kayla. Age: 21.
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Your sympathy to her cause is admirable and I applaud it. Not the hardened plasticized image of porn, let alone a "porn queen", at all. I redacted these names per WP:NPF , however, I feel that this issue is debatable so I encourage discussion on this first before reverting. Although if the above facts about having 30, subscribers is true, that might give her grounds for notability in her own right.