The worst was with a guy I was crazy about. In a culture that encourages the objectification of women, we should strive to be extraordinary, not normal. Then I felt him jostling behind me, near my lower back; after about a minute, I turned around to see his dick out. One guy I broke up with blamed me for seducing him. And then I made him tell me, twice, how much he wanted me to suck it. And then we showered together and I could not let him touch me at all.
Tatum. Age: 23.
Later we were sitting on a couch, my back to his chest, his legs spread open with me between them.
Naya. Age: 31.
I’m Queer & So Are You: “Power” Bottom
Home About Contact Submissions. We want to splash in the mud of lived experience, to battle for a radical empathy, and to provide a megaphone to howling assertions of human subjectivity. Later we were sitting on a couch, my back to his chest, his legs spread open with me between them. What ties together these essays, stories, poems, photographs, comics, and other bits of aesthetic shrapnel is a common attitude of visceral humanism.